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Reminder:You are beautiful !!!

A message on Self-Love…

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Hey loves,

I just want to spread the word about self love. Let’s be honest beauty is in the eye of the beholder but you are beautiful regardless of what people around you may say. Now a days it’s all about the trends. “Is Kim Kardashian doing it?”  It’s all about the likes on social media. “Did I get 1000 likes yet?” Its about who has the bigger butt, breast or eyebrows. LOL maybe not the eyebrow part, but you get what I mean.Why must we subject ourselves to tons of makeup and surgery to be the image that is accepted. Makeup should be used to enhance what beauty you already have not change your face to look like someone else. Are we not accepted the way God made us.

Listen I get it, We are not perfect and maybe there are 1 or 2 things about yourself you would change, but when it gets so extreme that you or the people around you don’t reflectionrecognize you there is a huge problem. Look at Lil’ Kim you mean to tell me that she hated the way she look so much that she changed every part of herself to love herself. Why did she have to take it that far ? Why did she have to change her  nose, lips or even face period? Why did she have to change her body ? why did she change so much? These questions are hard to answer. I think about the young boys and girls that have to grow up watching this. What are we teaching them? If you or your friends don’t like something don’t worry,  just get surgery and tons of makeup. Are we teaching them you don’t have to love the way God made you. This is SCARY to me. I would hope this will not be the norm of the world. I would hope my nieces and nephews are not subject to this type of thinking.

 

I truly believe beauty is yours. Look in the mirror. You are the BEST  you that you know!!! Don’t let anybody take that way from you.. Don’t be brainwashed into the trends. Don’t be fooled by the nay sayers. No body is perfect but thats the best part of being you. Embrace your imperfection. Spread the word of self love so our kids don’t grow up to look like someone else.

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